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DAUGHTER IN LAW WON’T LET ME BE IN THE DELIVERY ROOM!

Posted by Azania Tuesday, June 25, 2019 9:13:00 AM
My son, Steven, and daughter-in-law, Julia, are expecting their first child and our first grandchild next month. I had what I thought was a good relationship with Julia, but I find myself devastated. Julia has decided only Steven and her mother will be allowed in the delivery room when she gives birth. I was stunned and hurt by the unfairness of the decision and tried to plead with her and my son, but Julia says she "wouldn't feel comfortable" with me there. I reminded her that I was a nurse for 40 years, so there is nothing I haven't seen. I've tried to reason with Steven, but he seems to be afraid of angering Julia and will not help. I called Julia's parents and asked them to please reason with their daughter, but they brusquely and rather rudely got off the phone. I've felt nothing but heartache since learning I would be banned from the delivery room. Steven told me I could wait outside and I would be let in after Julia and the baby are cleaned up and "presentable." Meanwhile, Julia's mother will be able to witness our grandchild coming into the world. It is so unfair.
 
I've always been close to my son, but I no longer feel valued. I cannot bring myself to speak to Julia. I'm being treated like a second-class grandmother even though I've never been anything but supportive and helpful. How can I get them to see how unfair and cruel their decision is?
 

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